Let me be the first to admit that I go above and beyond for those I love. If I decide to commit to you, there isn’t too much that you can’t get from me. And due to my generous nature, I’ve encountered many a mate who was undeserving of what I had to offer. I […]
Category: love and relationships
The Number One Reason You’re Single
Let me say it plainly. Something’s wrong if you claim to want a relationship, but won’t take the time to evaluate and improve some of the things that may be getting in the way of you attaining one. That goes for anything in life. And since I’d like to think that everyone who comes across […]
The Thirst is Real: 5 Signs You Look Facebook Desperate
Even as someone who constantly writes about and offers advice on love, sex and relationships, I must say that I find dating in the 21st century to be somewhat challenging at times. It seems like there are all of these so-called rules that you’re supposed to follow. “Wait two days to call someone, otherwise you’ll […]
Why the Media is Lying on the State of Black Love
You know it. I know it, but one of the most influential, constantly accessible entities needs to be reminded. For every example of an authentic, strong, loving Black family portrayed in the media, there are several louder, more consistent images of dysfunction. Turn on any television station, especially cable, and trust me, you’ll witness an […]
5 Steps Towards Forgiveness
“Everyone says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until they have something to forgive.” –C.S. Lewis Forgiveness is one of the hardest things to do for many of us, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. You open up to someone in hopes that they’ll never betray your trust, and then it happens. Not […]