Even as someone who constantly writes about and offers advice on love, sex and relationships, I must say that I find dating in the 21st century to be somewhat challenging at times. It seems like there are all of these so-called rules that you’re supposed to follow. “Wait two days to call someone, otherwise you’ll […]
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#AskShantellem Live #2
This week we took “Ask ShanTellem” live once again. Viewers on GetJetMag‘s Facebook page tuned in to hear readers’ get answers to some of life’s trickiest relationship issues. Check it out.
Why the Media is Lying on the State of Black Love
You know it. I know it, but one of the most influential, constantly accessible entities needs to be reminded. For every example of an authentic, strong, loving Black family portrayed in the media, there are several louder, more consistent images of dysfunction. Turn on any television station, especially cable, and trust me, you’ll witness an […]
5 Steps Towards Forgiveness
“Everyone says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until they have something to forgive.” –C.S. Lewis Forgiveness is one of the hardest things to do for many of us, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. You open up to someone in hopes that they’ll never betray your trust, and then it happens. Not […]
Got Trust Issues? Maybe Infidelity is the Problem
“The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.” – Ernest Hemingway Each month, I host an event where I bring men and women of all ages and sexual orientations together for healthy relationship-centered dialogue. I present questions to the audience that range from the importance of financial stability […]