I am firmly aware of some folks’ positions when it comes to gender roles in relationships — especially African-Americans I know. In a so-called traditional heterosexual union, the roles are clear and well-known.
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Got Trust Issues? Maybe Infidelity is the Problem
“The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.” – Ernest Hemingway Each month, I host an event where I bring men and women of all ages and sexual orientations together for healthy relationship-centered dialogue. I present questions to the audience that range from the importance of financial stability […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: He cheated. Is it my fault?
Dear Shan Tell’em, My boyfriend of 2+ years ended up sleeping with someone else after a fight that we got into. He thought that I was cheating b/c of some texts & when I was a sleep (after drinking) I said I love you Peter* (his name isn’t Peter). Peter* is a friend from college, we had a […]