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Sign Language: 5 Characteristics That Make the Sagittarius Wonderful

Sagittarius season (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) is upon us and while folks are busy repping how much better their sign is than the other 11 (yawn), I, the Sexy Sagittarius (sly grin), have decided to be more diplomatic. No sign is better than the rest. The elements and distribution of strengths in certain areas won’t allow that.

In honor of OUR season, here are five reasons why we are wonderful, particularly why you may want to consider dating one (smile).

1) We are well-rounded.

We may be jovial and down for an adventure. We may even need constant stimulation for you to keep our attention. But you know what we don’t need? Assistance in finding topics of conversation. Our spontaneous nature and thirst for knowledge leads us down the road to a plethora of experiences, so chances are we are up on all of the current events, have travelled to Tahiti before turning 25 and moved to L.A. for a month just because. In sum, you’ll never be able to say that we are boring, which brings me to my next point.

2) We are adventurous.

If you are more attracted to someone who’d rather binge-watch Project Runway every weekend, then you may want to get you a Taurus (no shade LOL). While the Sagittarius man or woman definitely needs moments to recharge away from people, most of the time we are out on the town. No, this doesn’t mean that you’ll be expected to go skydiving or to the strip club every Friday. It just means that your archer will most likely not want to be home 24/7. Even the introverted brothers and sisters of this sign enjoy a night out. Whether it’s checking out a new museum exhibit or going out for Ethiopian food solo, this fire sign enjoys soaking up different experiences.

3) We are pretty damn transparent.

Okay, we are blunt as hell. Some of the things that fly out of my mouth are even too much for myself at times, but there’s a bit of charm in us being slightly tactless LOL. You always know what we are thinking, which allows us to build genuine, personable bonds with folks. That’s gotta count for something, right? Shrugs.

4) We don’t tolerate bullsh*t.

Okay, say what you want about us, but the Sag man or woman will not keep a lot of bad company around. We have a low tolerance for bs and value the hell out of honesty and truth. So if you’re one to play games or be slick, you won’t stand a chance with us. Be you always; just be you over there if your not right.

5) We are versatile in the bedroom.

Like I stated earlier, the Sagittarius do not like boring. Routine serves as a decent roadmap, but it certainly cannot be the main compass, especially in the bedroom. If you happen to be into strict routines when getting down …miss us with the agenda. We view sex as an exploration where just about anything goes. You can like what you like, but you better be willing to try some other ish every once in awhile.

Sign Language: 5 Characteristics That Make Cancers Wonderful

Cancer season (June 22-July 22) is upon us and while folks are busy repping how much better their sign is than the other 11 (yawn), I, the Sexy Sagittarius (smirk), have decided to be more diplomatic. No sign is better than the rest. The elements and distribution of strengths in certain areas won’t allow that.

In honor of Cancer season and to simply not contribute to the hate and division that irks my soul, here are five reasons why they are wonderful, particularly why you might want to consider dating one.

But I will say the Cancer memes (especially the one that says, “What are you gonna do for your birthday? Cry?”) are HIL-AR-IOUS! Google them, LOL!

1) They are emotional.

Okay, I get it. The last thing we want to do is feel, but f*** that. In a world where we are taught to distrust everybody and their mama, it is refreshing to actually know what’s in a Cancer’s heart. Next to the Sagittarius, this soothing water sign displays just how they feel about you through words or action, but over time. If they’re feeling you, they will not stay away. If they’re not, you better believe that while they may not tell you, their absence from your life will speak volumes. Either way, you’ll certainly know where you stand with this Moon child.

2) They take care of home.

Cancerians’ moodiness makes them the least predictable of all of the astrology signs, but one thing is for sure: they’re home will be spotless thanks to their ridiculously obsessive OCD and your belly will be full—so TWO things. Those born under this sign can cook! It’s like preparing food and being at home with those they love and adore is a damn aphrodisiac! Either way, I’m here for that plate baby! Being a homebody also gives the Cancer a sense of security that other signs don’t necessarily need, so if you’re into one be prepared to spend lots of time indoors intimate style with her or him.

3) They are passionate and seductive.

You may be able to have a quickie with a Cancer but I’d strongly advise against it. If so, you’d be robbing yourself of all of the joys of being seduced. Cancers are less responsive to rushed sex and more interested (and turned on) by slow, sensual lovemaking. I’m not saying you have to buss out the candles and red silk sheets every time you get ready to get down. But trust and believe, this is definitely a sign you want to sex slowly and passionately. Live in the moment and you will not forget it.

4) They are dreamers.

If a Cancer is unhappy, you will know it. So it makes sense that they’re the first on the bandwagon for you to quit your job or take that impromptu trip to Spain. Throwing caution to the wind, this sign has a way of saying “f*** you” (eventually) to anything and anybody who doesn’t lend to their joy. Cancers are the romantic dreamers of the zodiac (only second to Pisces), so if you tell them that you’re ready to pursue a goal, they’ll be right there cheering you on.

5) They are VERY loving and affectionate.

Unlike the Taurus, Cancers are always down for some TLC. This sign is highly intuitive, nurturing and emotional, and they want to express their feelings in as many ways as possible (except for verbally with their passive aggressive asses). If you’re someone whose love  language ranks pretty high in the area of physical touch, you’re in luck.

No, Everyone Doesn’t NEED A ‘Hoe Phase’

“Everyone needs to hoe out at some point in their life. How else do you figure out what you like and gain more experience?”

I was 20 when a good friend of mine made the above statement. While everyone else was busy hooking up, I was nose deep in my books and holding out for a quality relationship. I’m not going to sit here and pretend like I was Mother Teresa, but my bed for damn sure wasn’t getting as much action as my homies. I was too afraid to venture out and be part of the “hoe nation,” so to speak, but more importantly, I was  never really interested. Continue reading No, Everyone Doesn’t NEED A ‘Hoe Phase’