Dear Shan Tell’em, I’ve been dating a guy for about 3 months and everything has been pretty great so far. So much that I was waiting for the time when I would figure out what I don’t like about him to see if I could deal with it or not. Well I think I found […]
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Ask Shan Tell’em: Is there hope?
Dear Shan Tell’em, I came across your site because for the past couple of weeks, I’ve been dealing with a breakup. Honestly I’m not sure why I feel the way I do. I broke up with her because it was turning into every one of my past relationships all over again, and now I find […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: He cheated. Is it my fault?
Dear Shan Tell’em, My boyfriend of 2+ years ended up sleeping with someone else after a fight that we got into. He thought that I was cheating b/c of some texts & when I was a sleep (after drinking) I said I love you Peter* (his name isn’t Peter). Peter* is a friend from college, we had a […]
Why Your Purpose is Destined to Find You
Purpose /pərpəs/ noun the reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists. “the purpose of the meeting is to appoint a trustee” synonyms: motive, motivation, grounds, cause, occasion, reason, point, basis,justification We’re at the age where a lot of us are searching. Searching for love, searching for a better career, […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: Drunk in Love
Dear Shan Tell’em, I’ve been in a relationship on and off with this guy for about three years now. We have our share of issues, but the love is there. He’s cheated on me twice, and I did a revenge f*** to get back at him that he knows about. We do not have any […]