Dear Shan Tell’em, I came across your site because for the past couple of weeks, I’ve been dealing with a breakup. Honestly I’m not sure why I feel the way I do. I broke up with her because it was turning into every one of my past relationships all over again, and now I find […]
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Ask Shan Tell’em: He cheated. Is it my fault?
Dear Shan Tell’em, My boyfriend of 2+ years ended up sleeping with someone else after a fight that we got into. He thought that I was cheating b/c of some texts & when I was a sleep (after drinking) I said I love you Peter* (his name isn’t Peter). Peter* is a friend from college, we had a […]
Only you can make YOU happy
Happy adjective, happier, happiest. 1.delighted, pleased, or glad, as over a particular thing: to be happy to see a person. 2.characterized by or indicative of pleasure, contentment, or joy:a happy mood; a happy frame of mind. Everyone wants to be happy. We all seek to surround ourselves with people, activities, jobs, etc. that will get us […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: Drunk in Love
Dear Shan Tell’em, I’ve been in a relationship on and off with this guy for about three years now. We have our share of issues, but the love is there. He’s cheated on me twice, and I did a revenge f*** to get back at him that he knows about. We do not have any […]
You are not responsible for anyone else’s happiness
“If you cannot find peace within yourself then you’ll never find it anywhere else.”- Marvin Gaye I love the idea of making people happy, but it is not my responsibility to do so. It isn’t yours either. Because sometimes, no matter what you do, where your intentions lie or how much you’ve really tried, […]
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