Heal: (of a person or treatment) cause (a wound, injury, or person) to become sound or healthy again.become sound or healthy again.alleviate (a person’s distress or anguish). A lot of us are walking around hurt. We are being told that we are broken, damaged, toxic, etc. and many people are. But most of us are simply […]
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It Isn’t Hard to Meet Someone, It’s Hard to Choose Someone
“It is our choices …that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” J.K. Rowling Everyone talks about how hard it is to find someone. “People aren’t sh*t” and no one is “good enough.” Married folks tell single folks that they have it made, and single folks look over in the yards of […]

5 Things Martin Luther King Jr. Taught Us About Self Help
“There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe nor politic nor popular, but he must take it because his conscience tells him it is right.” – Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Today, millions of people in America will enjoy a day off from their 9 to 5 thanks […]

Why Those Who Scream, ‘F*** Love’ Need it Most
Confession. Every time my heart gets broken, the first thing I do is commit to taking a break from romance. I don’t want to think about the likelihood of having to entertain someone else and most importantly, I don’t want to have to deal with the possibility of getting hurt again. In other words, I scream, […]

Love Tip: Single Doesn’t Mean Desperate
Being an extrovert allows me to freely have access to the opinions, life stories and thoughts of other people in real time. Of course, those who are less inclined to walk up to someone and start a conversation do as well thanks to the Internet, but there’s something about being able to solidly connect in […]