Dear Shan Tell’em, I was dating a woman that I’ve had a crush on since high school who surprisingly enough, had been eyeing me too. We’re both single parents and broken from past relationships. She’s changed me dramatically in the time that I’ve been with her. Years ago, a prophet told me that “the woman […]
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Ask Shan Tellem: I’m in Love With My Boyfriend’s Cousin
Dear Shan Tell’em, Okay so here goes nothing. I’ve been with my boyfriend on and off for two years and we have our ups and downs but love each other. Before we got together, I dated his cousin for not even a month but that eventually fell off because he didn’t want anything serious. It […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: Frustrated and Horny
Dear Shan Tell’em, I have a girlfriend. We’ve been together for 3 years and she’s my best friend and I do love her. But I’m not sure if she feels the same way. Her affection is not what it used to be and now our bed is only for sleeping. I try to start […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: To Seek Or Not To Seek?
Dear Shan Tell’em, I’ve heard a lot that when you’re not looking is when it will happen, you’ll find someone. But if a year or so of living life goes by and nothing happens then what? At the same time actively seeking a partner has been quite the train wreck for me, but even […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: My Boyfriend Needs A Job!
Dear Shan Tell’em, I really enjoy reading your column! You give such a refreshing and real perspective about issues that many of us go through. With that being said, I want to know what you think about my problem. I’m a 26-year-old single female who loves her boyfriend. He recently lost his job and […]