You caught him cheating and now you want to put him on blast. She turned out to be a liar who used you for money and a place to stay and you want to bad mouth her. While it’s natural to feel some sort of way and act off of emotion when someone […]
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Ask Shan Tell’em: Begging
Dear Shan Tell’em, I’ve been in a relationship with my mate for about 4 years now. I started feeling neglected at some point, but I can’t remember when due to being blinded by her actions and just being naive. I felt hurt, and spoke to her about it, but she blew it off as if […]
Why “All My Babies’ Mamas (I’m Sorry)” Sets Blacks Back
Usually, I tend to stay away from entertainment because frankly I don’t give much of a damn about it. But upon hearing the news of rapper Shawty Lo’s new-found reality television series, I felt compelled to share my thoughts on the subject. Let me first start off by stating that I have a love/hate relationship with television. I […]
Dear Black Female: Why Are You Settling?
As I scroll down my Facebook mini-feed, I notice a trend. My white friends are throwing statuses, pictures, etc. up of them getting either engaged or married, while my black friends are discussing their “baby daddies” referring to themselves as “wifey” and living with their significant others with children. If I were to put a […]