If I have to pay for someone else’s mistakes, then I’m not buying. People rationalize all kinds of ridiculous behavior motivated by fear on a regular basis. The main excuse for not being willing to love someone freely and openly is, “I’ve been hurt before.”
You know what we are really great at? Making excuses for the piss poor treatment we receive by the ones we love. All of the signs that they do not value or respect us are there, yet we “hope” that things get better because we “love” them.
Excuse my French, but fear is a muthaf*****. Beyond its paralyzing ability to stop us from living a full and rich life dead in our tracks, it is ridiculously convincing. But Michael Jordan was on to something when he said, “Limits like fear is often an illusion.” Here are three ways to give fear the […]
People will say they want true love, stare it right in the face and run the other way. They don’t always run because they are on bulls***, but due to fear. The fear of ACTUALLY being loved the way they should be. The fear of getting what you hoped for and messing it all […]
If we think long enough, I’m pretty sure we can come up with more than a few things to complain about. I can think of at least three right now. While the practice may make you feel good in the moment, it serves absolutely no purpose at all when it comes to solving issues.