It’s good to plan. Those that do not may enjoy a few moments of cheap thrills, but ultimately their lives end up being one big clusterf*ck. But some things you just shouldn’t plan. Like love.
Tag: marriage
Ask Shan Tell’em: Am I Overthinking This?
Dear Shan Tell’em, I’ve been dating a guy for about 3 months and everything has been pretty great so far. So much that I was waiting for the time when I would figure out what I don’t like about him to see if I could deal with it or not. Well I think I found […]
Why needing someone instead of wanting them is a good thing
“Would you rather be wanted or needed by someone?” “Would you rather want or need someone?”
Dear Black Female: Why Are You Settling?
As I scroll down my Facebook mini-feed, I notice a trend. My white friends are throwing statuses, pictures, etc. up of them getting either engaged or married, while my black friends are discussing their “baby daddies” referring to themselves as “wifey” and living with their significant others with children. If I were to put a […]
Kindred the Family Soul
Shantell sits down with neosoul duo Kindred the Family Soul. They talk about how they got their start, work-life balance (they have 6 children) and upcoming projects. The couple also talk about what it’s like to work with your life partner. Photo: kindredthefamilysoul.com