Dear Shan Tell’em, I have been dating a guy for 10 years off and on. He has been abusive physically and emotionally, and I’ve tried to date other men but he ruins the relationship. What makes matters worse is that he is married with children and he has children with me.
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Is She Using Me?
Dear ShanTell’em, I’m a 35-year-old single man living in California. I have been involved with a woman I met through a mutual friend for about three months now. She does not want to commit, but expects me to do everything that a boyfriend should.
Ask Shan Tell’em: To Tell or Not to Tell…
Dear Shan Tell’em, I have a bit of a dilemma. A friend of mine is sleeping with a mutual friend of ours, who happens to have an incurable sexually transmitted disease. I did not find out about the STD from my friend, but through someone else who she recently had relations with who went to the […]
Pass or Play?
Dear Shan Tell’em, For the past 5 years, I’ve been sleeping with a woman on and off. We’re not in a relationship, and we rarely talk. But when we see each other we’re intimate. We’ve never kissed or anything, and come to find out she has a few issues with confidence. I suggested that she […]
UNHAPPILY EVER AFTER?
Dear Shan Tell’em, Last year around November, I started dating a guy who […]