As human beings, it’s natural to want a lot of things. Often, it’s quite easy to focus on what others have and what you do not. While most of it is material, sometimes it can spill over to emotional desires such as love, honor and companionship.
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Ask Shan Tell’em: My Boyfriend Needs A Job!
Dear Shan Tell’em, I really enjoy reading your column! You give such a refreshing and real perspective about issues that many of us go through. With that being said, I want to know what you think about my problem. I’m a 26-year-old single female who loves her boyfriend. He recently lost his job and […]
What Are You Dating For?
A few weeks ago, I posed a question on Facebook to my friends about dating. I asked them to explain what dating meant to them personally, and out of the 15+ responses, roughly 80% were different. That’s very telling when it comes not just to dating and finding a mate, but whether or […]
How To Fall in Love Without Losing Yourself in the Process
I see it all the time. Folks who are “so in love” to the point that they cease to have an individual identity. Most of us have been guilty of neglecting ourselves, our hobbies and those close to us “in the name of love” at some point. But it couldn’t be more unhealthy.
Why You Should Date Someone Who Scares the S*** Out of You, A List
People will say they want true love, stare it right in the face and run the other way. They don’t always run because they are on bulls***, but due to fear. The fear of ACTUALLY being loved the way they should be. The fear of getting what you hoped for and messing it all […]