Dear Shan Tell’em, I’ve been in a relationship with my mate for about 4 years now. I started feeling neglected at some point, but I can’t remember when due to being blinded by her actions and just being naive. I felt hurt, and spoke to her about it, but she blew it off as if […]
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Ask Shan Tell’em: Flirting for Fun?
Dear Shan Tell’em, You have a couple that has been together for quite some time. They will travel to the moon and back for each other so the love is not in question. One is a MAJOR flirt; the type that has never met a stranger. The other one is well aware of their lover’s […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: Educated & Frustrated
Dear Shan Tell ‘Em, I am a 30-year-old woman that recently graduated with a BA in Criminal Justice.It has been over a year since graduation and I still haven’t been able to get hired in my field. All I am hearing is “we are looking for someone with more core experience.” Since I wasn’t a […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: To Go Or Not To Go?
Dear Shan Tell’em, I’m a 30-year-old creative who has never vibed with the 9 to 5 routine. While I can do it, I’m just not built for it. I’ve been pursuing my dream of becoming a filmmaker and owning my own company for a few years now, and as you probably know, things have been […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: Is there hope?
Dear Shan Tell’em, I came across your site because for the past couple of weeks, I’ve been dealing with a breakup. Honestly I’m not sure why I feel the way I do. I broke up with her because it was turning into every one of my past relationships all over again, and now I find […]