A lot of people, especially those close to you, will gladly share their opinions on what you need to do to improve your relationship (status). Ultimately, it’s just the two of you in the mix who will be affected. So it’s very important to know when to listen to outside suggestions and to simply […]
Tag: commitment
You’re Not Going To Know Everything About Them, and That’s Okay
You can always tell that someone is seriously interested in you when they express a consistent desire to get to know you. They want to know as much as possible and will ask you about a million questions. They will aim to spend time with you and pay attention to what it is that […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: My Boyfriend Needs A Job!
Dear Shan Tell’em, I really enjoy reading your column! You give such a refreshing and real perspective about issues that many of us go through. With that being said, I want to know what you think about my problem. I’m a 26-year-old single female who loves her boyfriend. He recently lost his job and […]
Everything You’ve Been Told About Love is a Lie
Everything that you’ve been shown by the world and told by the world about love is a lie. Well MOST of it is. Love isn’t some magical feeling that makes all of the pain go away. It isn’t bunnies roaming aimlessly through a field of lovely daisies. It’s rough and dirty and everything […]
What’s In A Title?
We’ve all been faced with the choice of making our relationship “official” at some point. Usually a discussion takes place, with both parties agreeing that you’re ready to move on to the next level. But what does that mean? Does it mean that you verbally acknowledge that you’re exclusively together? Or do you […]