Dear ShanTell’em, I’m a 35-year-old single man living in California. I have been involved with a woman I met through a mutual friend for about three months now. She does not want to commit, but expects me to do everything that a boyfriend should.
Dear Shan Tell’em, I have a bit of a dilemma. A friend of mine is sleeping with a mutual friend of ours, who happens to have an incurable sexually transmitted disease. I did not find out about the STD from my friend, but through someone else who she recently had relations with who went to the […]
Dear Shan Tell’em, Okay so here goes nothing. I’ve been with my boyfriend on and off for two years and we have our ups and downs but love each other. Before we got together, I dated his cousin for not even a month but that eventually fell off because he didn’t want anything serious. It […]
A few weeks ago, I posed a question on Facebook to my friends about dating. I asked them to explain what dating meant to them personally, and out of the 15+ responses, roughly 80% were different. That’s very telling when it comes not just to dating and finding a mate, but whether or […]
Dear Shan Tell’em, You have a couple that has been together for quite some time. They will travel to the moon and back for each other so the love is not in question. One is a MAJOR flirt; the type that has never met a stranger. The other one is well aware of their lover’s […]