As we gather in what is known as the JET War Room at the Johnson Publishing headquarters, The Dream exudes an aura of chill. He’s been traveling for the past few weeks and is quite tired, like anyone with a demanding schedule would be. Dressed in all black with a Contra hat tucked to the […]
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Ask Shan Tellem: I’m in Love With My Boyfriend’s Cousin
Dear Shan Tell’em, Okay so here goes nothing. I’ve been with my boyfriend on and off for two years and we have our ups and downs but love each other. Before we got together, I dated his cousin for not even a month but that eventually fell off because he didn’t want anything serious. It […]
Don’t Ignore the Signs: When It’s Time To Call It Quits
Hope is wonderful. It is hope that sparks action. Hope is responsible for a lot of changes that occur. Unfortunately, hope is also responsible for a lot of relationships not ending as quickly. We actually know when a relationship is over. We know when it “just isn’t like it used to be.” We stick […]
Everything You’ve Been Told About Love is a Lie
Everything that you’ve been shown by the world and told by the world about love is a lie. Well MOST of it is. Love isn’t some magical feeling that makes all of the pain go away. It isn’t bunnies roaming aimlessly through a field of lovely daisies. It’s rough and dirty and everything […]
How To Fall in Love Without Losing Yourself in the Process
I see it all the time. Folks who are “so in love” to the point that they cease to have an individual identity. Most of us have been guilty of neglecting ourselves, our hobbies and those close to us “in the name of love” at some point. But it couldn’t be more unhealthy.