Let’s talk about titles and fidelity. Too many people have crossed my path over the years who possess the notion that once they become committed in any way to someone, whether via monogamous relationship or marriage, that they will magically become faithful. It is as if there’s some switch that will turn off their cheating ways. While […]
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‘Listen …You Don’t Own Me’
You should never have to utter the phrase of this title to your significant other. If you do, then you should highly consider getting…no f**k that …GET another romantic partner. While marriage may have originally stemmed from origins of ownership—the wedding ring was once a symbol for a woman actually being her husband’s property—that time […]
Love Advice: What Allowing Yourself to be Taken for Granted Really Means
You know what we are really great at? Making excuses for the piss poor treatment we receive by the ones we love. All of the signs that they do not value or respect us are there, yet we “hope” that things get better because we “love” them.
What Dating on Your Level Doesn’t Mean
People got it twisted. And I’m not talking about the folks who don’t have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of demanding that their mate have a six-figure salary, their own car and no children. They’ve got issues too, but I will deal with them later. Instead, I’d like to […]
Love Advice: You Cannot Drink From an Empty Cup
I remember graduating from undergrad more than 10 years ago. I had no job, was back home living with my folks, was in a new relationship that was scary and stressful as hell and had just got rejected from a paid internship in my field that would have resulted in not only a possible career, […]
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