Whenever you’re dating someone, you should observe the interactions that they have with associates, friends, family, etc. You don’t do this to spy, but to see how they treat those that are close to them, because it is a good indicator of how they will treat you. I’ve noticed that a lot […]
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In this day and age, it’s pretty common for couples to live together without being married. Most young Americans support cohabitation. They cite it as a necessary step to measure the growth of a relationship, and strongly believe that it helps you to “really get to know a person.” But how beneficial is cohabitation really?
When the Trust Is Lost…
A relationship will ultimately die no matter how long the couple lives without trust. The feeling, paired with love, honesty, respect and commitment is what keeps us IN LOVE. Without any of those, you’ll have a very tough time remembering why you chose to commit to your mate in the first place. But all […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: Frustrated and Horny
Dear Shan Tell’em, I have a girlfriend. We’ve been together for 3 years and she’s my best friend and I do love her. But I’m not sure if she feels the same way. Her affection is not what it used to be and now our bed is only for sleeping. I try to start […]