I’m privileged enough to say that I’ve never experienced breaking a single bone in my body. While I have a very high tolerance for pain, the agony is something that I, along with the rest of you, would never like to endure. If treated properly, the broken bone heals. But the pain is forever ingrained […]
Category: love and relationships
Why needing someone instead of wanting them is a good thing
“Would you rather be wanted or needed by someone?” “Would you rather want or need someone?”
Only you can make YOU happy
Happy adjective, happier, happiest. 1.delighted, pleased, or glad, as over a particular thing: to be happy to see a person. 2.characterized by or indicative of pleasure, contentment, or joy:a happy mood; a happy frame of mind. Everyone wants to be happy. We all seek to surround ourselves with people, activities, jobs, etc. that will get us […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: Drunk in Love
Dear Shan Tell’em, I’ve been in a relationship on and off with this guy for about three years now. We have our share of issues, but the love is there. He’s cheated on me twice, and I did a revenge f*** to get back at him that he knows about. We do not have any […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: reeling from a breakup…
Dear Shantell, Your site has been immensely helpful to my soul in trying to deal with a recent breakup. I’d be very grateful if you would listen to my breakup story and let me know your thoughts on what happened…