It Isn’t Hard to Meet Someone, It’s Hard to Choose Someone

“It is our choices …that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” J.K. Rowling Everyone talks about how hard it is to find someone. “People aren’t sh*t” and no one is “good enough.” Married folks tell single folks that they have it made, and single folks look over in the yards of […]

Love Isn’t Enough: You’ve Got to Have Courage Too

“Because I always have a choice, I choose love.” – Depak Chopra Love is one of the few things that everyone indisputably desires. In fact, the ones who scream, “F*** love” want it the most (I have time to argue). They’ve just decided to allow their pain to serve as a compass for their hearts–hopefully […]

Love Advice: It Isn’t ‘Starting Over,’ It’s ‘Starting Fresh’

“Don’t be afraid to start over again. This time you’re not starting from scratch; you’re starting from experience.” – Unknown I remember it like it was yesterday. I was on the phone with my boy discussing yet another “failed” relationship (I know better now) when I uttered the words, “Ugh! I’m so sick and tired […]