You caught him cheating and now you want to put him on blast. She turned out to be a liar who used you for money and a place to stay and you want to bad mouth her. While it’s natural to feel some sort of way and act off of emotion when someone […]
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What’s In A Title?
We’ve all been faced with the choice of making our relationship “official” at some point. Usually a discussion takes place, with both parties agreeing that you’re ready to move on to the next level. But what does that mean? Does it mean that you verbally acknowledge that you’re exclusively together? Or do you […]
Ask Shan Tell’em: Begging
Dear Shan Tell’em, I’ve been in a relationship with my mate for about 4 years now. I started feeling neglected at some point, but I can’t remember when due to being blinded by her actions and just being naive. I felt hurt, and spoke to her about it, but she blew it off as if […]
Looking For Love in All of the Wrong Places…
At the root of our existence is love. Love of the Creator, love of self, love of others, and love of a companion. We really cannot function without it. I mean we can, but we’d be robots and have a pretty lackluster existence. In fact, the only time someone doesn’t want love is when the […]
If You Really Care, Then Let Them Go
You meet someone who seems damn near perfectly compatible for you. You possess many of the same qualities, support each other, have passion and genuinely care for each other. You’re taking it slow, but both acknowledge the strong possibility of a relationship somewhere down the line. The union is off to a great start. Then […]
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