If I have to pay for someone else’s mistakes, then I’m not buying. People rationalize all kinds of ridiculous behavior motivated by fear on a regular basis. The main excuse for not being willing to love someone freely and openly is, “I’ve been hurt before.”
Tag: black love
People Prefer Projects Over Real Love
It has never been clearer to me: people crave love, but do not know how to receive it. They simply aren’t willing to do the necessary work to change their circumstance either. Instead, people opt for “projects” as opposed to a genuine, loving, passionate partner who they have an authentic soul-stirring bond with. True, this […]
How to Tell If You’re With ‘The One’
Whenever someone has found someone who they deem worthy of commitment they use terms like, “The One” to describe him or her. Let me be the first to say that while someone can be very special, I don’t subscribe to terms like this because I feel that any person can be “The One” at any given time in […]
What Healthy Black Love Looks Like
If we are being real, we know way too many people–that is if we are not one of them–who are in unhealthy relationships. They stay in the name of love, but are hella miserable. And if you ask me, life is way too short to be unhappy.
3 Signs That You’re in A Toxic Relationship
We’ve all been there. We find love, fall in love, break up and for whatever reason, cannot let each other go. Do not always take your inability to move on from a person as a sign that you are meant to be together. Some relationships are just plan toxic. Here are three signs that you […]
