Whenever you’re dating someone, you should observe the interactions that they have with associates, friends, family, etc. You don’t do this to spy, but to see how they treat those that are close to them, because it is a good indicator of how they will treat you. I’ve noticed that a lot […]
When the Trust Is Lost…
A relationship will ultimately die no matter how long the couple lives without trust. The feeling, paired with love, honesty, respect and commitment is what keeps us IN LOVE. Without any of those, you’ll have a very tough time remembering why you chose to commit to your mate in the first place. But all […]
Everything You’ve Been Told About Love is a Lie
Everything that you’ve been shown by the world and told by the world about love is a lie. Well MOST of it is. Love isn’t some magical feeling that makes all of the pain go away. It isn’t bunnies roaming aimlessly through a field of lovely daisies. It’s rough and dirty and everything […]
What Are You Dating For?
A few weeks ago, I posed a question on Facebook to my friends about dating. I asked them to explain what dating meant to them personally, and out of the 15+ responses, roughly 80% were different. That’s very telling when it comes not just to dating and finding a mate, but whether or […]
How To Fall in Love Without Losing Yourself in the Process
I see it all the time. Folks who are “so in love” to the point that they cease to have an individual identity. Most of us have been guilty of neglecting ourselves, our hobbies and those close to us “in the name of love” at some point. But it couldn’t be more unhealthy.